Anger and Communication

The good, the bad and the ugly

We talked last night about turning negative into positive. Here’s a different perspective: focus on the good traits in someone rather than the bad. For example, if someone is loud and somewhat obnoxious, perhaps they’re also funny. If someone talks a little too much, perhaps they’re kind to others as well. We all have good and bad traits. When we get upset/mad/annoyed with others because we only notice their bad traits without regard to their good – that’s our problem. It hurts us. Be the best you. Recognize and tell others what you like about them. Be positive. I promise, you will be much happier. You have nothing to prove. Everyone knows how strong/good/smart you are. Now go display kindness and happiness. Love dad

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